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In regards to this guy, you asked if it’s OK for you to initiate plans.
In general, there’s nothing wrong with you initiating plans with a guy.
In previous posts, I’ve talked about how when a guy is being flaky, doesn’t text back, or isn’t doing something you want him to do, the worst response is to become needy.
In your case, you weren’t needy – you didn’t make a big deal about it and you backed off when he wasn’t putting in the effort that you expect.
On the other hand, it can take some guys longer than others to figure out what they want, so you need to have a good sense of how patient you want to be.
If you hit a breaking point, there’s nothing wrong with putting your thoughts out there and letting him know where you’re coming from.
HE HAS NEVER POSTED A PICTURE OF US ON ANY SOCIAL SITE AND NEVER CHANGED HIS STATUS FROM SINGLE TO A RELATIONSHIP….If you like this guy, go with what seems to be working best with him – give him space and let him put the effort in. What should i do.should i call him since he chatted me up already or i should still let him be.Hi, I met this guy online we had few conversations via text and calls.FACEBOOK CAUSED ALL KINDS OF ISSUES WE BOTH GOT OFF AT LEAST I AM IM HOPING HES BEEN HONEST AND IS TOO…HE SAYS HIS CELL PHONE IS HIS BUSINESS AND I HAVE NO RIGHT TO KNOW WHAT IS ON IT INCLUDING TEXT MSG AND NUDE PHOTOS OF OTHER GIRLS….
However, you mentioned that he shows more of an effort when you “care less”, so I would say that if that’s what works, why not hang back and let him put in the effort.