Dating an old flame after divorce
Fortunately, it is possible to win back your old flame using your charm, talents and a positive attitude. If the relationship was strong the first time, why shouldn't you have a strong relationship now?
Make plans to hang out casually with your old flame. Remind your old flame about the great times you had together.
Buser, Ph D, coauthor of The Guys-Only Guide to Getting Over Divorce.
Call up old friends, join a softball team, a club, or a professional association. Just don't make the mistake of expecting your kids to be upbeat about it.
Your child still needs you as a father, not as a visitor.
"That should be the most important thing from the man's point of view: His child wants him and his child needs him," Finley says.
This kind of touching is sure to remind your old flame of your previous physical encounters.
Too many men seek out a new relationship before the dust has settled on their divorce, says psychologist Sam J.
Five years ago, you met the man of your dreams, who would later become the one who got away.