Dating a sociopath woman
I have come to realized that I had started developing coping mechanisms of denial and minimizing in order to deal with the stress.
The effects of this emotional abuse over time have caused me emotional trauma, including depression and anxiety. All my love, Her name Sweetheart, It was difficult to read some of the things that you wrote in your e-mail to me, but I can accept that you feel that way.
Things I have confided in you are thrown in my face when you have an outburst.
I have found that I cannot trust you with my heart, so I keep my mouth shut.
It is a great description of dysfunctional behavior in a woman, so it is reproduced here in order to help others.
I am a 60 year old male who was living with a 50 year old female for three years. I wrote a letter to my Ex-girlfriend a few days after I left.
At times I feel guilty and like I have to walk on eggshells just to keep less stress in my life. You make excuses for your behaviour, try to blame others, and have difficulty apologizing especially in a timely manner. You blame me for your problems, life difficulties and unhappiness. You give me unpleasant labels and make cutting remark. You get emotionally distant and emotionally unavailable a lot of the time. You disengage and use neglect and abandonment to punish me (like sleeping on the couch or the kids rooms). You don’t seem to notice or care about my feelings. You view me as an extension of your ex-husband, rather than as me the individual. You withhold sex as a way to manipulate, punish and control. You deny your emotionally abusive behaviour when I have brought it to your attention. I hate to admit it but I don’t see it getting better I don’t see a future with you.
You have been telling me weekly “this is my house.” “This is my room.” “I need to rent someplace where you won’tdisturb me.” “You talk too loud on thephone.” “The TV is too loud.” “What? ” My presence use to be appreciated now it appears I am an annoyance. I am wasting so much of my valuable life with someone who does not respect or cherish me.
I find myself doing things I don’t wish to do because of your behavior to me if I don’t. It is clear this will only continue and it is getting more intense and more frequent. They also enjoy your company and would like to see you again.Hopefully, with this absence, we can get a sense of direction. I have been living under the impression that we were in a relationship that thrived on open and honest disclosures.This is very difficult for me because I realize I care too much. This is something that I told you in the very beginning was so refreshing, rewarding, uplifting and beneficial to me.So if any of these 15 signs that you're dating a narcissist do pop up, please proceed with extreme caution — and remember, from someone who's been there, that famous charm may turn on you.Editor’s note: A Lovefraud reader who calls himself “Fly” posted the following comment on August 7, 2015.